speaking as a server. in reference to servers taking one or more tables order at a time. i have seen many times where the server puts the food in and the food comes out reverse of how it was put in. don't you realize that this also upsets the server? don't you think most good servers see this happening? but tell me, what do you want the server to do? i agree that buttermilk has it's faults, as all places of business do, but a lot of the servers at this restaurant truly care about customer satisfaction. but you as the customer also need to remember that a server can not fix a problem if you, the customer, don't let the server know. complaining to the cashier/manager/owner is to late to have something done. please, please tell you server. and please remember that you do not have to be rude about it. most (good) servers will do whatever it takes to get the problem taken care of. servers can't fix the problem if you don't tell them.
servers deal with a diverse group of people through out the day. some happy, which is a great, and some people that aren't so happy.
please remember that this is not fast food. and if you are in a hurry then you need to go to a fast food establishment or come in earlier.
one last thought.......you may not realize this, but hungry people are the hardest people to take care of?