if a zero star was a rating option, i would give bella monica a zero star. we had the worst restaurant experience of all time at this place. i had made reservations for my boyfriend's birthday. we waited 45 min for our table. during that time our table of six drank 1 bottle of wine at the bar while waiting to be seated. at 845pm we sat at our table....we were quite hungry. our server gave us attitude for asking to taste from a bottle of cab we intended to order, which costed $50 (it was a bottle of wine which offered a glass serving). the server also forgot our apps. we ordered another bottle after our salads while waiting for entrees. at this time the manager came to our table. instead of apologizing for the long wait and checking in on how service was going, he asked if we drove to the restaurant. a bit puzzled, we thanked him for his concern. then we let him know we ubered and walked from our friend's house who lived across the street. we then ordered a 3rd bottle with our entrees. the server poured the wine into our glasses. the manager came over again to the table but this time he said "i'm going to cut off this side of the table from drinking the wine". needless to say we we're completely flabbergasted and disturbed. my boyfriend's friend politely responded "excuse me sir but what is the problem? none of us are drunk or even buzzed". he could not give us a clear answer and was condasending. again we were not acting rude, drunk or inappropriate in any way. over a period of two hours, each of us had two to three glasses of wine. i told the manager that we came to his restaurant to eat good italian food and drink good wine. i reminded the manager that it was my boyfriend's birthday and we had the option to go to many other restaurants but we chose bella monica to celebrate his day. i told him we were completely offended, have never experienced anything like this at a restaurant and thanked him for ruining my boyfriend's birthday dinner. we asked them to box up our dinners, cork our wine bottle and we immediately left. they did not comp for any of our dinner or offer an apology. we ended up eating cold mussels and chicken parmesan in a to-go box at our friend's home. we then found out later on yelp that many other customers had the same experience. as someone who used to work in restaurants and continues to dine out regularly at many fine restaurants in raleigh, it's completely absurd to me that bella monica continues to be in business. save yourself from a horrible dining experience and go to another italian restaurant.