do you smoke or go to the bathroom? that's not ok at this restaurant. as soon as you leave your seat, in their eyes, you are going to dine and dash. oh wait, my purse is still on my seat? no no, i just left that there for show as i plan to leave without it and without paying.
honestly, i've never felt more judged and criminalized with a group of friends than at this restaurant. there were 15 of us, and each time a person left, the staff could not accept that the other 14 were walking, talking collateral. furthermore, at the end of the meal, our server and the other staff were nothing but rude. they had 15 separate bills to disperse yet to staff, a group of adults was deemed unable to sort out which was which and who had what on their own. they wanted to make sure that they could "personally account for every member of our party" and did not feel safe with dropping off the cheques for us to disperse between ourselves. over my whole adult life, never have i run into such severely unprofessional and judgmental behavior at a restaurant - i don't even remember what the food tasted like.